Happy 20th Birthday to my dearest Bibi deardear!!
I know i shouldnt remind u that u are Twenty already, no more teen but ty like aunty that ty. Opps~ Haha.. Just kidding. But still u look like you are only 16+,17, the most only 18. Therefore, I wish you Year year 18. Look like 18 every year, figure like 17, everyday happy like 16. U'll only grow & mature in terms of mentality & nothing else. (^_^)v
It had been the 2nd birthday that we are celebrating together. Still remember those times that we spend together. Eating seems to be our favourite past time. Faster come back!! Then i shall bring u to more places to eat. =)
It seems a long time since we have a good meal good although we just had it 6 weeks ago. That is long enough. Thanks for bringing me to those wonderful place with fabulous food. I just feel like i'm in heaven. Heavenly food with a beautiful angel feeling happy as I finish up the food.
I hope we can celebrate your birthday in the nicest way possible (atleast better than last year). & you will be happy for that belated celebration. Deardear, it had been quite sometimes where I didnt spend good time with you. I shall make up for it when you are back. =)
Jia you for your papers to come!! Loveya~~ Muack!!
With Love,
('.')v <-small head, small eyes Booboo
3 Nov 2009
2 Nov 2009
There is no need for that
Something had happened to my Bibi today.
In the evening, she told me that her friends threw her a surprise bday party & she was really touched. There is this particular friend of hers that treats her really nice. They are often mistaken by couple. Haha.. Just kidding.. Just that they are often seen together. & her sis treats her really nice too, just like her own sister. I remember there was 1 instance when she was in Aussie alone & she was very depressed. They got her out & even got her ice-cream. Like hoaxing a little gal like that. But that really worked on my Bibi.
All these months in the 2nd Sem, I heard so many many nice nice stories about them. I think almost every other days, she told me about them. I’m very grateful that they were taking such a great care of my gf when she was there alone.
After bibi reached home, she called me. Suddenly, she ask me this funny qn. What if she converts, will I accept? I was like??!! Well, just as long u don’t put anything in the bed room & don’t ask me to convert, I wont mind. Before I tell her my thgt regarding this, she asked me to convert too! She was telling me that she can feel it. My answer to her: Over my dead body. Sorry that I to be so harsh. I believe everyone has their right to choose their beliefs. Why is yours so special? Want every1 to convert? I don’t see other religion actively looking for people to convert. Sorry that I’ve been through too many, too many incidents. I can easily name some right from 12 years old:
1) My fren came over to do project. As it was dinner time, my parents ask him to stay for dinner. Before he eats, he started chanting something. As I was young, I don’t understand. He thank Him, but it my parents who got him food. -.-” As I grew older, I think this is good as he is grateful that he is having this meal while others might not be fortunate. But I think this is a really good teaching & should be applied to everything they have. Chinese called it 感恩.
2) I was waiting for my fren after my tuition class at TPY. There is this guy who approached me saying that he will only take 10min of my time. I was like “Well, I can spare that 10 min” This guy went on & on for ½ hour despite me hinting to him that I need to go. That was my 1st encounter & from then, I start to hate it.
3) My neighbour refused to pay respect to the late father on his death anniversary. My neighbour’s Mother has to go to the c***** & talk to the pr****. Then he is willing to go to temper to pay respect to his dad. For g** sake, just because u called some1 else father doesn’t mean that the man who brought u up is not your father anymore. For this, I tell myself, I only have 1 father & he’s my dad. No one else can replace him no doubt we don’t have really good terms. But it is a fact that he brought me up using him tears, sweat & blood.
4) Still in secondary school, I have this classmate of mine, for c***** for a purpose: Find gf. He told us this gal is so hot, that gal is so hot. *faint* Then he still told us that some of these gals are actually very h****. Very easy to **********. Of cos these are some black sheep in these places that needs to be identified & castrated. Well, there are some many ppl & some many activities. So guy & gal being together are very natural.
5) Just 3 years ago, there is this guy from don’t which country came to Singapore just to preach. He came to me & ask me do I have a belief. I said yes but he continues. NB~ Then ask for F***? After I stopped him, he approached another 1 in the train cabin. If he got so much time, why not go do some charity works. I’m sure this is more useful than asking people to convert. Like 1 of my friends. She went to some 3rd world country to do 1 year of charity work. I think this is really useful & contributes to the society. & not here yanking & yanking.
6) Just early last year, there is this guy from Korea came to me & talk about him belief. I was like WTH. Buzz off. He just don’t let go. Still show me the little white booklet turning to the page showing the bridge. He says that everyone on earth will kneel down in front of Him 1 day, why not now? Bloody piece of S**T!! F***ing ask me to kneel down in front of him (Notice that it is him & not HIM). In my mind, “over my dead body” was my reply. U take all other religions are non existence? Why yours so special? I only kneel down for some reasons. When pray to my ancestors, my god, when proposing to my gf & when I serve tea to my elders. Other than that, I don’t think there is a need to kneel down.
Anyway, from this incident #6, I totally detest people who try to convert ppl to their beliefs. FUCK OFF!! I don’t care who you are or what religion you are in. The basic thing is call RESPECT. Please respect other ppl’s religion. They have their beliefs for a reason. There is no need to convince other ppl to convert. NO NEED FOR THAT!! If you treating ppl nice is to convert them, I’ll really doubt those people who teach you.
To my Bibi, I really hope this will change your to a better person after u’ve converted. I have no doubt about the teachings. It’s always those people who teach that spoil the market. I have also put my points clear to you. If 1 day, u’ll to leave me after those ppl “psycho-ing” aka “Advice/ teaching” I have nothing to say but to add another point & strengthen my stand of detecting these people. Lastly, I want to say I miss you. MUACK~ (^_^)v
PS: This post is NOT against any religions & there is no name mentioned. Any conclusions are based purely on your own assumptions. To put it down once again, I only detest those people who trying so hard to convert ppl which I believe their time can be used to do things which are more constructive. All the above are only based my unfortunate encounters. I believe all religions are teaching people to be a better person & I respect all religions & I think all are equal.
In the evening, she told me that her friends threw her a surprise bday party & she was really touched. There is this particular friend of hers that treats her really nice. They are often mistaken by couple. Haha.. Just kidding.. Just that they are often seen together. & her sis treats her really nice too, just like her own sister. I remember there was 1 instance when she was in Aussie alone & she was very depressed. They got her out & even got her ice-cream. Like hoaxing a little gal like that. But that really worked on my Bibi.
All these months in the 2nd Sem, I heard so many many nice nice stories about them. I think almost every other days, she told me about them. I’m very grateful that they were taking such a great care of my gf when she was there alone.
After bibi reached home, she called me. Suddenly, she ask me this funny qn. What if she converts, will I accept? I was like??!! Well, just as long u don’t put anything in the bed room & don’t ask me to convert, I wont mind. Before I tell her my thgt regarding this, she asked me to convert too! She was telling me that she can feel it. My answer to her: Over my dead body. Sorry that I to be so harsh. I believe everyone has their right to choose their beliefs. Why is yours so special? Want every1 to convert? I don’t see other religion actively looking for people to convert. Sorry that I’ve been through too many, too many incidents. I can easily name some right from 12 years old:
1) My fren came over to do project. As it was dinner time, my parents ask him to stay for dinner. Before he eats, he started chanting something. As I was young, I don’t understand. He thank Him, but it my parents who got him food. -.-” As I grew older, I think this is good as he is grateful that he is having this meal while others might not be fortunate. But I think this is a really good teaching & should be applied to everything they have. Chinese called it 感恩.
2) I was waiting for my fren after my tuition class at TPY. There is this guy who approached me saying that he will only take 10min of my time. I was like “Well, I can spare that 10 min” This guy went on & on for ½ hour despite me hinting to him that I need to go. That was my 1st encounter & from then, I start to hate it.
3) My neighbour refused to pay respect to the late father on his death anniversary. My neighbour’s Mother has to go to the c***** & talk to the pr****. Then he is willing to go to temper to pay respect to his dad. For g** sake, just because u called some1 else father doesn’t mean that the man who brought u up is not your father anymore. For this, I tell myself, I only have 1 father & he’s my dad. No one else can replace him no doubt we don’t have really good terms. But it is a fact that he brought me up using him tears, sweat & blood.
4) Still in secondary school, I have this classmate of mine, for c***** for a purpose: Find gf. He told us this gal is so hot, that gal is so hot. *faint* Then he still told us that some of these gals are actually very h****. Very easy to **********. Of cos these are some black sheep in these places that needs to be identified & castrated. Well, there are some many ppl & some many activities. So guy & gal being together are very natural.
5) Just 3 years ago, there is this guy from don’t which country came to Singapore just to preach. He came to me & ask me do I have a belief. I said yes but he continues. NB~ Then ask for F***? After I stopped him, he approached another 1 in the train cabin. If he got so much time, why not go do some charity works. I’m sure this is more useful than asking people to convert. Like 1 of my friends. She went to some 3rd world country to do 1 year of charity work. I think this is really useful & contributes to the society. & not here yanking & yanking.
6) Just early last year, there is this guy from Korea came to me & talk about him belief. I was like WTH. Buzz off. He just don’t let go. Still show me the little white booklet turning to the page showing the bridge. He says that everyone on earth will kneel down in front of Him 1 day, why not now? Bloody piece of S**T!! F***ing ask me to kneel down in front of him (Notice that it is him & not HIM). In my mind, “over my dead body” was my reply. U take all other religions are non existence? Why yours so special? I only kneel down for some reasons. When pray to my ancestors, my god, when proposing to my gf & when I serve tea to my elders. Other than that, I don’t think there is a need to kneel down.
Anyway, from this incident #6, I totally detest people who try to convert ppl to their beliefs. FUCK OFF!! I don’t care who you are or what religion you are in. The basic thing is call RESPECT. Please respect other ppl’s religion. They have their beliefs for a reason. There is no need to convince other ppl to convert. NO NEED FOR THAT!! If you treating ppl nice is to convert them, I’ll really doubt those people who teach you.
To my Bibi, I really hope this will change your to a better person after u’ve converted. I have no doubt about the teachings. It’s always those people who teach that spoil the market. I have also put my points clear to you. If 1 day, u’ll to leave me after those ppl “psycho-ing” aka “Advice/ teaching” I have nothing to say but to add another point & strengthen my stand of detecting these people. Lastly, I want to say I miss you. MUACK~ (^_^)v
PS: This post is NOT against any religions & there is no name mentioned. Any conclusions are based purely on your own assumptions. To put it down once again, I only detest those people who trying so hard to convert ppl which I believe their time can be used to do things which are more constructive. All the above are only based my unfortunate encounters. I believe all religions are teaching people to be a better person & I respect all religions & I think all are equal.
1 Nov 2009
17th Month & Counting
Hello Forgetful Bibi, we had been together for 17 months already. U always dont remember.
Bibi, i just want to tell u how much I love you despite the quarrels that we have. Everytime when we quarrel, u'll be the 1 hoaxing me. What's more can I ask for in a gf? Of cos, this will not be happening very often. I'll also give u this kind of privilege & nice treatment. Be that loving & doting bf that you wanted. =)
Lastly, i want to tell u, I miss you lots. Looking forward to the day that u are back! 24 days more!!!
Bibi, i just want to tell u how much I love you despite the quarrels that we have. Everytime when we quarrel, u'll be the 1 hoaxing me. What's more can I ask for in a gf? Of cos, this will not be happening very often. I'll also give u this kind of privilege & nice treatment. Be that loving & doting bf that you wanted. =)
Lastly, i want to tell u, I miss you lots. Looking forward to the day that u are back! 24 days more!!!
31 Oct 2009
Trip to Shanghai
This is the longest trip i had. 10days! OMG~ This trip to Shanghai, Changzhou, Hengzhou & 1-day tour to Zhouzhuang is just an appetiser. The real sh*t is behind. Yesterday was the last day to the company. Gone ICN! So my next trip will be on my own.
Went over there to clear up all the sh*t. As my parent company changes their vision from long term to short term due to the financial crisis. This is definitely their worst decision made. When i was there to look at the prospect of the company, everything looks so nicely path out. They have €4mil worth of contract in their pocket & that's S$ 8mil!! If worst case, only 1/4 comes in, there is also S$ 2mil, which is like more than 2 years of Singapore's target!
Well, decision made. Now the only operating cost to maintain China business is ME!! No need to pay for office, no need to pay the staff in China (he's commission based). There is no need for marketing & the contract that our exclusive dealer signed is €200,000 each. With S$ 0.8mil each year with next to no cost at all is a sure business. I also want this kind of business model. Of cos there are all issues behind all these business. All these are stuff that my boss need to manage, not within my circle of concern.
This trip was a real eye-opener. See the extremes of China. See how they work. How impt PR is in terms of business. How personal creditability plays an impt role in the career. Once lose it, u can never gain in back in the industry. On the other hand, business can be very cunning. 1 moment, u may win the project that u have been working very hard for the last 2-3 year, next min u know, it's gone. That's how they do business there. PR PR PR.. Public relation, personal relation, Personal reliability!! There are more to come. Has yet to visit the plants. That's where the nightmares are. Walk walk walk from 1 place to another as the plants are so huge. & Climb 50m of stairs to reach the top of the urn. See almost no sky as the pollution is real bad. White in, black out. All these will be coming in my future trips.
Sales + technical is what i'm trained to do for the past 2 years. This is where i'm put to the real test. For 2010, that's what i'll be doing. So, my frens, if u think i MIA next year, that's cos i'm trapped there. Only back 50% of the time where out of these time, 20-30% is used for studies, 10%-20% for gf, so left with 5-10% for meeting up with frens. This company better pays me well for taking so much of my time. Weekends are really bored. Especially when deardear's internet got so much prob & out of 42 cable tv channels, i only watching 2. -.-"
This is all for this trip.
Went over there to clear up all the sh*t. As my parent company changes their vision from long term to short term due to the financial crisis. This is definitely their worst decision made. When i was there to look at the prospect of the company, everything looks so nicely path out. They have €4mil worth of contract in their pocket & that's S$ 8mil!! If worst case, only 1/4 comes in, there is also S$ 2mil, which is like more than 2 years of Singapore's target!
Well, decision made. Now the only operating cost to maintain China business is ME!! No need to pay for office, no need to pay the staff in China (he's commission based). There is no need for marketing & the contract that our exclusive dealer signed is €200,000 each. With S$ 0.8mil each year with next to no cost at all is a sure business. I also want this kind of business model. Of cos there are all issues behind all these business. All these are stuff that my boss need to manage, not within my circle of concern.
This trip was a real eye-opener. See the extremes of China. See how they work. How impt PR is in terms of business. How personal creditability plays an impt role in the career. Once lose it, u can never gain in back in the industry. On the other hand, business can be very cunning. 1 moment, u may win the project that u have been working very hard for the last 2-3 year, next min u know, it's gone. That's how they do business there. PR PR PR.. Public relation, personal relation, Personal reliability!! There are more to come. Has yet to visit the plants. That's where the nightmares are. Walk walk walk from 1 place to another as the plants are so huge. & Climb 50m of stairs to reach the top of the urn. See almost no sky as the pollution is real bad. White in, black out. All these will be coming in my future trips.
Sales + technical is what i'm trained to do for the past 2 years. This is where i'm put to the real test. For 2010, that's what i'll be doing. So, my frens, if u think i MIA next year, that's cos i'm trapped there. Only back 50% of the time where out of these time, 20-30% is used for studies, 10%-20% for gf, so left with 5-10% for meeting up with frens. This company better pays me well for taking so much of my time. Weekends are really bored. Especially when deardear's internet got so much prob & out of 42 cable tv channels, i only watching 2. -.-"
This is all for this trip.
11 Oct 2009
Because I'm a girl
Just watched this MTV. I almost shed a tear. Almost.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A0BAssXgeHs
Life can no need to be that crude. Love can be easier. There are many times where ppl take their love ones for granted & that includes me. Perhaps that's life. Why do people remember painful or unhappy events more than good things, because we are made to learn from our mistakes & grow.
There are many times that I've taken u for granted, many times that i've taken my family or even my health for granted. I hope that can be a past & i'll do better now & future.
Thank you for supporting me & sorry that i had said those nasty words. I hope that u can let go of the past & we can moved on together. It's never easy to walk till this stage & will be tougher in the many years to come. I hope we can still be like now next year, next next year & many many years after. Dear, i just want to let u know that I love you & i really do hope that u can walk this road with me. Jia you for your exams to come. Take care!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A0BAssXgeHs
Life can no need to be that crude. Love can be easier. There are many times where ppl take their love ones for granted & that includes me. Perhaps that's life. Why do people remember painful or unhappy events more than good things, because we are made to learn from our mistakes & grow.
There are many times that I've taken u for granted, many times that i've taken my family or even my health for granted. I hope that can be a past & i'll do better now & future.
Thank you for supporting me & sorry that i had said those nasty words. I hope that u can let go of the past & we can moved on together. It's never easy to walk till this stage & will be tougher in the many years to come. I hope we can still be like now next year, next next year & many many years after. Dear, i just want to let u know that I love you & i really do hope that u can walk this road with me. Jia you for your exams to come. Take care!
3 Jul 2009
Pictures on Vday
The pendant I got for her from Lee Wah. So nice right? She chosen herself.
Sushiteh!!! *Yummy*
A happy boyfriend with his present. A beautiful photoframe with this picture she edited herself:
1 Jun 2009
Valentine's Day 2009
I know it had been quite some time that this had passed, but i'll blog abt it as it's a very special day for both of us. For me, it had been many years since i celebrated with my gf; for her, she had never celebrate with her bf.
Vday falls on a Saturday, but our story started on Thursday. We went to catch a movie at PS at 9+pm on thursday. As we were there early, we decided to have a walk around the jewellery shops since she wanted a necklance to show those Aussies that she's taken. =p As we were walking thru all these shops, 1 of the necklances caught her eyes. Immediately she set her eyes on that & she wanted it badly. Being such a nice gf, I think she really deserve that necklance. After I got for her, she was so happy that she almost burst into tears. Cos she said no 1 other than her dad treats her so nice b4. Well, that tear really let me feel that the burnt on my pocket is all worth it. Off to the cinema we went.
As I'm blogging now, I'm constantly thinking why this year's Vday is so much different as b4. Is it cos it had been long time since I celebrated? No. Is it cos I've never felt so much in love? Maybe? Is it cos I have never had such a nice gf? Yes!! It is the answer for my question. I'VE NEVER HAD SUCH A NICE GIRLFRIEND!! Unlike other years where I've to plan everything out by myself, Deardear actually discuss with me on our date. Thinking of how sweet she is, just makes me smile & u are right, I'm smiling right now as i blogged. The next thing that I'm going to say how nice my gf is, I think any guy who reads this, will want a gf like her. Knowing that I'm tight on budget, she actually intro me a cheap but nice rose cum delivery website. *drooling with dropped jaw* It is cheap as it remains the price for V day & there are 9 roses. It is fixed to deliver on Saturaday morning. I stayed over her place the nite before (on friday) so that we can count down the arrival of this special day. =) As the clock strikes 12, we wished each other & she slept in my bonney arms.
Woke up early morning to go to the supermart as we want to DIY our Vday dinner. It is really nan de that deardear is going to cook for me. Of cos that comes in just 1 condition where I need to wash the dishes. Agreed! We got ingredients for our smoked salmon salad, pan-fried fish, Baley's choc cake & ham & cheeze starter. Deardear starts the vday by treating me to all the most delicious dishes in the best chain Jap restaurant, Sushi Teh. She started off with soft shell crab. Not that fantastic, as it is common. The hao liao is served behind. The King Roll is served. It is a sushi where the king prawn is rolled in the sushi. Next served on the table is the most smooth sashimi I have ever had. With just a little wasabi & light sauce, the taste & feeling simply takes me to heaven. After I return back on earth, I had another prawn. This is a roasted galic prawn (I think i tasted cheeze too). It is roasted so well that the whole prawn can be eaten in 1 piece. Being such a greedy me, I took the whole piece & put into my mouth. I saw angels again. Totally heavenly.. I think deardear must be secret smiling at how xin fu I felt. Deardear, I want to use this opportunity to tell u that I've never had such a wonder meal. Thank you!!!
After resting awhile, we started preparing. She did all the cooking & i try making the cake. As everything is pre-mixed, all i need to add is Baley's, eggs & water. Being a super sweet gf as I keep emphasising, she helps me with the dishes. After washing, we went for a quick wash up & dressed up for the dinner. It is rather romantic as we done up our dinner with candles & we off the lights. Although 1/2 way through we were interrupted, we still enjoyed it. After dinner, we went to deardear's room & she gave a my V day presentS. Yes, it is with a "S". 1st was a super big & nice photo frame of us. Deardear spend many sleepless nites just to put all the pics into this frame. Super nice & super impressive that she can do such an unique present. She really surprised me. Next she got me a Zara tie!! OMG~ I've never received such a nice gift b4. thanks, dear!
Deardear, I want to tell u that I really enjoyed this Vday with u & I'm really grateful to have you. Today is also our 1st Anniversary & I would want to wish u Happy Anniversary. I really wish that we can celebrate many many Vday to come & many many anniversaries. I'll be a more understanding bf, I'll give in to you more. I'll share your loneliness & also your happiness. Dear, i want to share everything of you. Bibi deardear, I love you..
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